Race the Sunset
Exploring the myriad mysteries of life, from beyond the furthest reaches of the universe to the quiet sanctuary of the human heart.
About Me
- Ralph F. Couey
- Pearl City, HI, United States
- Husband, father, grandfather, friend...a few of the roles acquired in 69 years of living. I keep an upbeat attitude, loving humor, and the singular freedom of a perfect laugh. I don't let curmudgeons ruin my day; that only gives them power over me. Having experienced death once, I no longer fear it, although I am still frightened by the process of dying. I love to write because it allows me the freedom to vent those complex feelings that bounce restlessly off the walls of my mind and express the beauty that can only be found within the human heart.
Monday, February 17, 2025
That Day...And What's Coming Next
Saturday, February 08, 2025
The Cost That Must Be Paid for Freedom
Freedom is not free.
This statement has become timeworn, perhaps even trite. But its use, perhaps overuse, hasn’t diminished the fact that it is still fundamentally true.
In what was then colonial America, a group of restless idealists decided that after decades of mistreatment by Britain, enough was enough. After countless hours of fractious, even combative debate, they published their intent to break from the Crown and form a new country.
This was an incredibly bold and courageous move against what was then the most powerful empire on Earth. They were, in fact, committing treason, the punishment for which was death. Also at risk were their families, homes, and everything they had earned and built. The risk was enormous, but they did not hesitate.
The war resulting from that Declaration of Independence was long, brutal, and costly. The army suffered bitter cold, hunger, and sickness. Desertions were common. The war was almost lost on several occasions but for the dynamic presence of a Virginia planter, George Washington. His inestimable leadership, strength, and tactical brilliance kept the army together and allowed him to execute a series of bold, brilliant attacks that eventually drove the British out of America.
Even after such an improbable victory, the internal struggles continued. What kind of government would it be? A republic with a strong central government and subordinate states? Or a confederacy characterized by a weak central authority and autonomous states? Some of these questions were addressed in the Constitution, which required 13 more years of arguing. Other questions would take a costly Civil War to find the answers.
What is most wonderful about this entity we call the United States of America is that we have not yet reached our final form. It has been a continual experiment in freedom and liberty, constrained by responsibility and accountability. This is why the Constitution was never intended to be a final product and would be amended repeatedly. Many ideas have been tried and accepted. Many others have been considered and cast aside. We have made mistakes, yes. But we have not, nor will we ever stop trying to get it right. Today, we are still asking tough questions and seeking difficult answers. Debates go on with the same passion as they did in that hot, humid summer of 1776. We are still a young country compared to the history of this world, and we will always seek a better way, a better life. We continue to challenge expectations, even accepted assumptions. We remain convinced that no matter how magnificent our achievements are, we can always do better.
As a tour guide aboard the USS Missouri Memorial, I talk to people from all over the world. They have told me that what sets Americans apart is our absolute refusal to accept average. As a culture, as a people, we are driven by excellence, and not just the hope but the expectation that we will not only succeed but even exceed the goal. We compete to be the best. We hate losing. Even coming in second causes us to grumble and grind our teeth. It has been that unrelenting drive for excellence that has resulted in our supremacy in so many fields: science, technology, engineering, math, bioscience, medicine, and the arts. We won the race to the moon, to Mars, and the rest of the planets. Today, Voyager I, Voyager II, and Pioneer X, three technological ambassadors built and launched by America, have left our solar system and started their journey into the galaxy. There, they will travel for millennia, carrying a message from humanity to intelligence far beyond that we were here and that our restless, questing intelligence led us to the stars.
It takes courage to challenge the unknown. But America has never lacked that courage. Our willingness as a country to accept that challenge does not come from government mandate. It comes from us, from how our nation was formed: Of the people, By the people, and for the people. President John Kennedy once said, “For in a democracy, every citizen, regardless of his interest in politics, 'holds office.' Every one of us is in a position of responsibility.” We who are here today and those who will follow us will be the ones who determine if we will continue to reach beyond the stars or look only downward and dig our own graves. We are a restless people. Let us always be restless. Our unwillingness to accept the present as permanent will always propel us upwards. In that soaring journey, none of us can afford to sit quietly on the sidelines.
We had a granddaughter named Zoe, who was born with a serious birth defect, missing a part of her fifth chromosome. Now, there are 46 chromosomes in each human cell. Cells are microscopic. Chromosomes even tinier. One might think that missing such an infinitesimally small thing might not be that big of a deal. But in fact, it left her severely disabled. We lost her at the tender age of five months.
Each of us is only one of over 330 million people. Like a chromosome within a cell, that may seem small and inconsequential. But in a representative republic governed by the will of her people, there are no small parts, no insignificant people.
Nora Jones sang a song, “American Anthem,” in which were these words:
There’s no magic wand, no Jedi hand wave that can make that happen. It is too easy to look in the mirror and decide we have nothing to contribute. However, each individual American is a collection of unique gifts, talents, and abilities that can spring to life in the fire of passion and possibility. The individual must open the door and choose to turn those gifts loose upon the world.
However, for this nation to live, we must decide to live together. We have differences, yes. However, each individual has walked a separate path, a unique journey that has shaped their life and their feelings. We don’t have to agree on everything. But we must respect each other’s journey. Instead, let us look at things we have in common that can unite rather than divide us. Remember those remarkable days after 9/11 when we as a nation stood together, arm in arm, shoulder to shoulder. And remember that an America thus united cannot be defeated.
There is no better example of this than the passengers and crew of Flight 93 on that terrible day. If you had been in the airport that morning and encountered one of them and asked later for a description, you might have used the word “ordinary.” As events unfolded, we know now that they were anything but ordinary. In the face of grave danger, they decided together, stood together, and acted…together.
John Wayne once said, “All battles are fought by scared men who’d rather be someplace else.” The actions of those people on that day were called valorous, brave, and heroic. Undoubtedly, they felt fear. But that did not stop them. The biggest difference, after all, between the courageous and the cowardly is how one reacts to that fear. Fear can be allowed to collapse into mindless, paralyzing panic. But at that moment, we must realize that something needs to be done; step up and act. That defines courage, the willingness to push fear aside and do what must be done. Once again, President Kennedy: “The cost of freedom is always high, but Americans have always paid it.”
We live in perilous times in a dangerous world. Once distant and indistinct, the drumbeats of
war are now beating loudly. We hear them
from the West, from China and North Korea.
We hear them from the East, from Russia and Iran, and in seemingly every
direction from terrorist groups all over the world. It is a time when our greatest courage and
strength is needed. But it is also a
time when we face serious divisions from within. After 9/11, we recognized and embraced that
we were Americans first, last, and foremost.
We found that unity at a moment when we truly needed it. And we can find it again. It was an impassioned Patrick Henry who
proclaimed, “United we stand, divided we fall! Let us not split into factions which must
destroy that union upon which our existence hangs."
The future of The United States of America ultimately depends on what we choose to do today, how we choose to act, and if we choose to stand together. This is our choice and our responsibility. Abraham Lincoln was speaking to Congress, but his words should resonate with us during these divisive times: “Fellow citizens, we cannot escape history. The fiery trial through which we pass will light us down in honor or dishonor to the latest generation. We, even we here, hold the power and bear the responsibility.”
The freedoms we possess and the freedoms we desire completely
depend upon our willingness to pay the price and endure the cost of those
freedoms. The world is watching us, and
as long as we continue to ring that great bell of freedom, those clear, strong
peals will be heard beyond our country, the sound of hope for those who have
none. A desperate world has thrust
leadership upon us. Let us rise and face that challenge. Let us accept that
responsibility. And let us lead with
intelligence, strength, and compassion.
In our nearly 250 years, the United States of America has accomplished much. But before us is a future fraught with peril, a steep, rocky, and treacherous path over which we must walk, a mountain we must climb.
We must face that mountain in the same way we always
have, with courage, strength, and unity.
This is truly what we are as a nation and who we truly are as a people. This is America! We are Americans! Nobody else can do this. Nobody else will
do this. Let us rise together, work
together, and succeed together. And
together, we will bring humanity into the light of freedom!
Friday, January 24, 2025
Learning the What, and the Why Behind It
Friday, December 13, 2024
A Day of Infamy; A Day of Grace
The sun rose, spreading its light into the clear sky, a moment of indescribable peace and tranquility. Across the harbor, the water lay almost glassy. It was eerily similar to another morning 83 years earlier, that Day of Infamy; December 7th, 1941.
That day, however, the calm was suddenly broken by the roar
of aircraft and the shocking explosions that heralded the beginning of a new
war.
This day, however, the peaceful calm remained intact. On the
north side of Ford Island the destroyer USS Carl Levin and the submarine USS
Hawai'i moved through the water with reverent dignity. The drawbridge
connecting the island to Honolulu had been pulled aside, and the two vessels
made their way through, passing alongside the grave of a ship that has always
been the symbol of that attack. As they came abeam of the USS Arizona Memorial, a
whistle sounded across the water and the white-clad sailors manning the rails
came to attention. This has always been the tradition. When any Navy ship
passes the graceful white memorial, they render honors in respect partly for
the old battleship, but just as much for the 1,177 men who remain entombed
within the ship.
At the appointed moment, 7:55 AM, or 07:55 in Navy speak,
there was a sudden roar from the south. A formation of four F-22 Raptor
fighters from the Hawai'i Air National Guard swept in low. Just as they reached
the memorial, one aircraft went vertical, knifing into the brilliantly blue sky
accompanied by the roar of afterburners. It was the traditional "missing
man formation," the moving salute to the fallen. Across the harbor, at the
Arizona Memorial Visitors Center, a 103-year-old Pearl Harbor survivor rose
from his wheelchair to render a salute.
Aboard the battleship USS Missouri, just a few hundred yards
from Arizona's bow, staff members stood at attention, our throats tight with
emotion. We work here every day, but the sense of history and honor that fills
this harbor is always present in our hearts. We all clearly understand that the
freedoms we cherish are largely due to those who fought and died for them.
This ceremony occurs every year, and it never feels old or routine. It means so much to us because Arizona was where World War II began for America, and Missouri was where it ended 1,365 days later.
Around 0758, the first Japanese bomb fell on Ford
Island. A couple of minutes later, three air-launched
torpedoes slammed into USS Oklahoma’s port side. She immediately flooded and
began rolling over. Abandon Ship was
ordered before 08:00. Oklahoma would be
struck by two more torpedoes, sealing her fate. Hundreds of men would be
trapped inside.
USS West Virginia, moored outboard of USS Tennessee, was
struck by an estimated 7 torpedoes. She
listed 28 degrees, but prompt action by damage control teams corrected the list
to 16 degrees. She settled nearly
upright on the harbor bottom.
USS Arizona was hit around 08:10, an armor-piercing bomb
penetrated the main deck and exploded in a space where black powder was being
temporarily stored outside of the magazines.
The resulting explosion lifted the battleship out of the water and tore
her apart, igniting a fire that took two days to extinguish. Her losses were over half of those from the
entire attack, 1,175 men.
USS Nevada was executing morning colors, accompanied by the
ship’s band. The National Anthem was being
played when two strafing Japanese planes swept past, firing at the assembled
sailors, but only succeeding in tearing the flag. In a magnificent display of courage, nobody
broke ranks, and the band finished the Anthem.
Nevada then went to work, shot down several planes, and was the only
battleship that morning to slip her moorings and head for sea. She was hit by one torpedo, but prompt
counterflooding kept her upright. The
sight of this gallant ship steaming along with the tattered flag at her tail
was an inspiration to all who witnessed her sortie. But the Japanese attackers, seeing her
moving, dropped a cluster of bombs on her forecastle (the area of the bow
forward of the gun turrets) causing severe damage and forcing a decision to
beach the ship rather than risk her sinking in the channel.
In less than 30 minutes, the Japanese accomplished their
primary mission, the destruction of the Battle Line of the Pacific Fleet. A lot of other damage was recorded, and 2,390
Americans lost their lives. Half the
combat aircraft stationed on O’ahu were destroyed as well as severe damage to
airfields and related facilities. But
there was some good news.
The aircraft carriers, Enterprise, Lexington, and Saratoga
were all at sea during the attack. Their
destruction would have severely crippled the United States. For over a year, they were the sole source of
offensive capability. All the dry docks
were intact, which enabled damaged ships to be quickly repaired. The fuel tanks scattered around the harbor,
containing 4.5 million barrels of oil were completely spared. That loss would have forced all surviving
ships back to the West Coast.
Later historical analysis would show that the reaction of
the American sailors, soldiers, and airmen was swift. Men, mostly young, who had never been in
battle took immediate action to get anti-aircraft guns in action, in many cases
hacking open ammunition lockers. Below
decks, men struggled to control the damage.
Many formed passing lines to move ammunition from below decks up to the
guns. The stories of heroism and
gallantry were numerous. 16 men would receive
the Medal of Honor, 10 posthumously.
It was, as President Roosevelt later described it, a day of
infamy.
There is so much to contemplate—not just the death and
destruction of that day, but everything that occurred during the war, including
the horrifying atrocities committed against the innocent. Worldwide,
approximately 69 million people perished, 50 million of whom were civilians.
The world was torn apart in unimaginable violence as opposing forces clashed
across the globe.
As painful as that was, one blessing emerged. Humanity,
capable of such violence, also demonstrated the wisdom to end it. General
Douglas MacArthur summed it up best:
"Today the guns are silent. A great tragedy has
ended, and a great victory has been won. Death no longer rains from the skies;
the seas bear only commerce. Men everywhere walk upright in the sunlight. And
the entire world lies quietly at peace."
It is essential for us today to remember December 7th,
1941. In a space of minutes, America moved
from peace to global war, fought simultaneously in the Pacific and Europe. But most remarkably, a nation with deep
political divisions, immediately linked arms, stood shoulder to shoulder with a
heartfelt unity that would propel America through three-and-a half years of war. We learned a lot that day, and in the days
that followed about ourselves and our nation.
Monday, November 11, 2024
Veterans Day 2024
Thursday, October 31, 2024
The Spirit of Autumn
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
This Time of Year, This Time of LIfe
Monday, October 07, 2024
Gut Punch...Or Perhaps Not
Tuesday, September 10, 2024
What Was Paid for Freedom
Freedom is not
free.
This statement
has become timeworn, perhaps even trite.
But its use, perhaps overuse, hasn’t diminished the fact that is it
still absolutely fundamentally true.
In what was
then colonial America, a group of restless idealists after decades of
mistreatment by Britain decided that enough was enough. After countless hours of fractious, even
combative debate, together they published their intent to break from the Crown
and form a new country.
This was an
incredibly bold and courageous move against what was then the most powerful
empire on Earth. They were, in fact,
committing treason, the punishment for which was death. Also at risk were their families, their
homes, everything they had earned and built.
The risk was enormous, but they did not hesitate.
The war
resulting from that Declaration of Independence was long, brutal, and
costly. The army suffered bitter cold,
hunger, and sickness. Desertions were
common. The war was almost lost on
several occasions, but for the dynamic presence of a Virginia planter named
George Washington. His inestimable
qualities of leadership, strength, and tactical brilliance not only kept the
army together, but allowed him to execute a series of bold, brilliant attacks
that eventually drove the British out of America.
Even after such
an improbable victory, the internal struggles continued. What kind of government would it be? A republic with a strong central government
and subordinate states, or a confederacy characterized by a weak central
authority and autonomous states? Some of these questions were addressed in the
Constitution, a document that took 13 more years of arguing before its initial
form was finalized in 1789. Other
questions would take a costly Civil War to find the answers.
What is most
wonderful about this entity we call the United States of America is that we
have not yet reached our final form. It
has been a continual experiment in freedom and liberty, constrained by
responsibility and accountability. This
is why the Constitution was never a final product, and would be amended time
and again. Many ideas have been tried
and accepted. Many others have been
considered and cast aside. We have made
mistakes, yes. But we have not yet, nor
will we ever stop trying to get it right.
We are still today asking tough questions and seeking difficult
answers. Debates go on with the same
passion as they did in that hot, humid summer of 1776. We are still a young country when compared to
the history of this world, but we will always be seeking a better way, a better
life. We continue to challenge
expectations, even accepted assumptions.
We remain convinced that no matter how magnificent our achievements, we
can always do better.
In my job as a
tour guide aboard the USS Missouri Memorial, I talk to people from all over the
world. They have told me that what sets
Americans apart is our absolute refusal to accept average. As a culture, as a people, we are driven by
excellence, and not just the hope, but the expectation that we will not only
succeed in that task, but even exceed the goal.
We compete to be the best in all fields, in all endeavors. We hate losing. Even coming in second causes us to grumble and
grind our teeth. It has been that
unrelenting drive that has resulted in our supremacy in so many fields. Science, technology, engineering, math,
bioscience, medicine and the arts. We
won the race to the moon, to Mars and the rest of the planets. Today, Voyager I, Voyager II, and Pioneer X, three
technological ambassadors, built and launched by America, have left our solar
system and started their journey into the galaxy. There, they will travel for millennia,
carrying a message from humanity to intelligences far beyond that we were here,
and that our restless, questing intelligence led us to the stars.
It takes
courage to challenge the unknown. But America
has never lacked that courage. Our
willingness as a country to accept that challenge comes not from government
mandate. It comes, rather, the way our
nation was formed: Of the people, By the
people, and for the people. President
John Kennedy once said, “For in a democracy, every citizen, regardless of
his interest in politics, 'holds office.' Every one of us is in a position of
responsibility.” We, even we
here, and those who follow us will be the ones who determine if we will
continue to reach beyond the stars, or look only downward and dig our own
grave. We are a restless people. Let us always be restless. It will be our unwillingness to accept the
present as permanent that will propel us upwards, along with the rest of
humanity. In that soaring journey, none
of us can afford to sit quietly on the sidelines.
We had a granddaughter, named Zoe who was born with a serious birth defect, missing a part of her fifth chromosome. Now, there are 46 chromosomes in each human cell. Cells are microscopic. Chromosomes even tinier. One might think that missing such an infinitesimally small thing might not be that big of a deal. But in fact, it left her severely disabled. We lost her at the tender age of five months.
Each of us is only one of over 330
million people. Like a chromosome within
a cell, that may seem small and inconsequential. But in a representative republic governed by
the will of her people, there are no small parts, no insignificant pieces.
Nora Jones sang a song, “American Anthem,” in which were these words:
There’s no
magic wand, no Jedi hand wave which can make that happen. It is too easy to look in the mirror and
decide that we have nothing to contribute.
But each individual American is a collection of unique gifts, talents,
and abilities that can spring to life in the fire of passion and possibility. It remains to the individual to open the door
and turn those gifts loose upon the world.
However, in
order for this nation to live, we must decide to live together. We have differences, yes. But each individual has walked a separate
path, a unique journey that has shaped their life and how they feel. We don’t have to agree on everything. But we must respect each other’s
journey. Let us instead look to those
things that we have in common, that can unite, rather than divide us. Remember those remarkable days after 9/11
when we as a nation stood together, arm in arm, shoulder to shoulder. And remember that an America thus united cannot
be defeated.
There is no
better example of this than the passengers and crew of Flight 93 on that
terrible day. If you had been in the
airport that morning and encountered one of them and asked later on for a
description, you might have used the word “ordinary.” As events unfolded, we know now that they
were anything but ordinary. In the face
of grave danger, they decided together, stood together, and acted together.
John Wayne once
said, “All battles are fought by scared men who’d rather be someplace
else.” The actions of those
people on that day have been called valorous, brave, heroic. Undoubtedly, they felt fear. But that did not stop them. The biggest difference, after all, between
the courageous and the cowardly is how one reacts to that fear. For some, the fear collapses into mindless,
paralyzing panic. But others embrace the
realization that something needs to be done, and knowing that they can
act. I think that defines courage, the
willingness to push fear aside and do what must be done. Once again, President Kennedy: “The
cost of freedom is always high, but Americans have always paid it.”
We live in
perilous times in a dangerous world. The
drumbeats of war, once distant and indistinct are now beating loudly. We hear them from the west, from China and
North Korea. We hear them from the east,
from Russia and Iran, and in seemingly every direction from terrorist groups
all over the world. It is a time when
our greatest courage and strength is needed.
But it is also a time when we face serious divisions from within. After 9/11 we recognized and embraced that we
were Americans first, last, and foremost.
We found that unity at a moment when we truly needed it. And we can find it again. It was an impassioned Patrick Henry who
proclaimed, “United we stand, divided we fall! Let us not split into factions which must
destroy that union upon which our existence hangs."
The future of The
United States of America is completely dependent on what we choose to do
today; how we choose to act, and if we choose to stand together. This is our choice, and our
responsibility. Abraham Lincoln was
speaking to congress, but his words should resonate within us during these
divisive times: “Fellow citizens, we cannot escape history. The fiery
trial through which we pass will light us down in honor or dishonor to the
latest generation. We, even we here,
hold the power and bear the responsibility.”
The freedoms we
possess, and the freedoms we desire are completely dependent on our willingness
to pay the price and endure the cost for those freedoms. As long as that great bell of freedom rings, those
clear, strong peals will be heard beyond our country, the great sound of hope
for the world.
The United
States of America has accomplished much in our nearly 250 years. But before us is a future, fraught with peril;
a steep, rocky and treacherous path over which we must walk, a mountain we must
climb.
Let us vow to walk together; to climb together, and together we shall stand at the summit and welcome the beautiful light, the dawning of a new day!