Copyright © 2011 words only by Ralph Couey
A month ago today, I was wheeled into an operating room at Windber Medical Center in Pennsylvania. About 40 minutes later, I came out, my life changed forever.
I have always struggled with my weight, essentially since the age of 8. This is something that seems to run in the family, since I’ve seen pictures of my ancestors from the depression, a solid working class clan, who wore bellies even in the midst of the worst economic disaster in our history.
Over the years, I began to suffer from the inevitable physical consequences of obesity, including diabetes, bad joints, and heart problems. I didn’t take retirement seriously because, frankly, I didn’t think I’d live that long. Finally, after two heart incidents within 10 months, my wife and I decided it was time for some drastic alternatives.
In January 2010, after experiencing chest pain on the way to work, I was taken to the hospital where I received my third cardiac stent (the first two in 2003). In March, my wife, a Registered Nurse with 30 years surgical experience, brought home some literature on a procedure called a lap band. I was skeptical, but the stent thing had scared me pretty badly and I was ready to listen. We went to a seminar for prospective patients put on by Dr. Kim Marley.
The information provided was a revelation. In 2002, I almost had a full gastric bypass done. The operation was derailed when the insurance company pulled the authorization literally as we were on our way to the hospital. But this was different. A gastric bypass is a permanent thing, routing the intestine from the bottom of the stomach to a new pouch created at the bottom of the esophagus. The lap band, conversely, is an adjustable and reversible device, the size of which is controlled by injecting or withdrawing saline through a port attached to the inside of the patient’s skin. Being far less complex, recovery time was relatively fast.
The program is structured such that a period of 6 months passes between the time you agree to the procedure and when it is actually done. This is to allow time for testing and evaluation, dietetic, physical, as well as psychological counseling, giving the patient plenty of time to think.
I was still on the fence, but a second heart incident in October suddenly made the decision a no-brainer.